The 4 Lessons®
Leadership · Education · Attitude · Personal Development — the framework behind Z-Girl.
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Leadership
Lead yourself first—choices, integrity, courage.
For youth:
- • I can choose one brave thing to do today.
- • I can be kind and still set boundaries.
- • I can lead by example—even in small ways.
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Education
Growth through learning—curiosity, effort, progress.
For youth:
- • I can ask for help without feeling embarrassed.
- • I can break big work into tiny steps.
- • I can learn from mistakes instead of quitting.
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Attitude
Mindset matters—self-talk shapes your next move.
For youth:
- • I can notice negative thoughts and name them.
- • I can talk to myself like a friend.
- • I can choose a calm reset when I’m heated.
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Personal Development
Healthy habits—emotional strength, confidence, long-term growth.
For youth:
- • I can build one habit that helps me feel steady.
- • I can name my feelings instead of fighting them.
- • I can celebrate small wins and keep going.
How Z-Girl Fits In
Z-Girl is a fictional hero coach from The 4 Lessons® universe. She helps youth slow down, name emotions, and practice small “hero moves” they can use in real life.
Z-Girl is not a therapist, doctor, or emergency service. If someone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.